Happy men's day

 I will never know how its like to be a man, the only man I ever spend time is my father. 

I grew up hating boys, hating that they are too privileged, hating that everyone wanted me to be a boy, hating that society looked down on my parents for not having male child, in shot I hated them too much. 

I never believed when someone said to me that men are not allowed cry, my initial reaction was " it's a drama, all they want is sympathy" but later realized I have never seen a man crying, I  have never seen my father shading tears, not even when my grandmother left the earth, he loved her dearly.  

Now when I have opened my eyes wide on this issue I can recall many stories where from young age they are encouraged follow this rule, this rule where not crying is manly and swallowing their emotion is called being a man, soothing their wounds with multiple  bottle of alcohol is "That's my boy."  

MEN AND MAKE UP

I don't want go inside the history to tell you men and women wore the same cloths, jewelries  and makeup, I am pretty sure Tipu Sultan wore Palazzos and Rajput,s wore many ornament to look royal.

Today when a man wares makeup he becomes unworthy of  being called as a man, where as everybody is OK with Bollywood actors wearing makeup. I remember when I was in class 10th a new boy was enrolled in my class, he had golden earing  in his earlobe and my math teacher asked him remove those rings because a boy should not be wearing it.

Dressing up, make up, accessorizing is a personal choice, there is a huge pressure on women to apply make up and huge pressure on men to do contrary.

But I believe the a man's biggest enemy is not the other binary gender but they themselves.

MEN RAPE:

Men can also be a victim of domestic violence, harassment, sexual assault and Rape. This led me to highlight a very famous case called Dastane v.s Dastane, where Mr. Dastane was a victim of cruelty by his wife. There are not many laws to protect from men from these misery.

THE TRUTH

Yes men have it all easy.

I have told you that I hated men too much for too long, I despise them now too because all any body can seen is them treating women an object, I have seen guys showing interest in girls just for the sheer possibility of  getting  on bed with them. I have suffered enough of harassment, cat calling, bullying and i am not the only one, every female have their own experience.

Men have made other men look like a monster, i know all man not the same but who is the question,